It is true that when a guy complains that no women like him, it’s because he has experienced tons of rejections. Your point that there’s a ton of average women who WOULD be interested if he asked them out, is irrelevant, because these lazy women are PROACTIVELY HIDING their interest.However, the main reason he’s bitter is because NO WOMEN HAVE EVER SHOWN HIM INTEREST. I don’t count subtle signals as hair flicks, accidental bumps and subtle hinting as “clamoring for his attention”, because that shit is only visible to women.The fact that he felt the need to email his own wife a spreadsheet like this says a lot about his communication skills, or lack thereof, which could be part of the reason why she doesn’t feel intimately connected to him. On the flip side, this is a very private issue that she chose to make public to the entire world, so neither party made the optimal choice in how to handle this.I understand that consistent avoidance of intimacy from your own wife can be frustrating, but there is obviously more going on here than meets the eye.
Those 6 average women will not hit on him, ask him out, etc etc.
If you haven’t heard by now, there is a Excel spreadsheet floating around the internet that a 26 year old man sent to his 26 year old wife.
The spreadsheet chronicled the previous six weeks of their relationship, how many times he attempted to initiate having sex, and all of the reasons why she declined.
The very method of “handling” the issue is a red flag about the rest of the relationship that none of us even know about.
Perhaps, instead of complaining in such an impersonal manner (or complaining at all), the husband should have sat down with his wife and voiced his concerns to her like an adult.