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Over my life as a transgender man I have had moments I wish I could have said something to someone close to me but failed to.

Until going back in time is an option, lets move forward with better understanding on things we wish we could tell our close friends and potential partners.

This is a story about how one day I believed certain things about myself and the next day I realized, knew the way you know a good nectarine, that I had been wrong.

There was something about him, intelligence, warmth, confidence, but also, something else. That night I went to see Slumdog Millionaire with my mother.

If I say things like “It’s the testosterone”, you have my permission to not believe it.

I am well aware of the emotional changes that I’ve decided to undertake and there are countless support systems and advice articles for dealing with extra tension and shorter tempers all over Google.

Some relationships, trans or cis don’t end up being ‘text book’. Him, looking sleepy-eyed and stoned (which, as it turns out, he was) in a brown shirt and narrow tie. From all angles, this seemed crazy and pathetic to me. "You aren't a lesbian," he says in between slurps of his noodles.It being a novelty to have a trans friend isn’t worth my life.If you want to talk about it, just don’t use my name and say you’ve ‘got a friend’. My dysphoria isn’t your fault It can be tough to be emotionally involved with someone who has a hard time with self image.

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